This is book 10 of my 20 books of summer (hmm, maybe I should have gone for 10!) and a novella from 1922 that I would never have come across if it wasn’t for that pesky 1001 books list. It is a really quick read, which I had expected to find a bit dour and old-fashioned, but which I actually loved.
A contemporary of Virginia Woolf and Dorothy Richardson, Sinclair is an early modernist writer and critic, and a pioneer of the ‘stream of consciousness’ style of writing, but has tended to fly under the radar.
The book (published by Virago) opens with Harriett a much-cossetted baby, and across 15 elliptical chapters her life is shown to us in chronological snapshots. Harriett’s early life is loving but very sheltered, spot-lit by a single act of rebellion when she sneaks out of the family’s orchard garden and ventures down the path to where “you came to the waste ground covered with old boots and rusted, crumpled tins. The little dirty brown house stood there behind the rickety palings; narrow, like the piece of a house that has been cut in two. It hid, stooping under the ivy bush on its roof. It was not like the houses people live in; there was something queer, some secret, frightening thing about it“. When a man emerges from the house, Harriett does an about-turn and retreats home, filled with dread.
Harriett is chastised for having broken her parents’ trust, but not punished. Her father sums up the family’s expectations of Harriett: “Understand, Hatty, nothing is forbidden. We don’t forbid, because we trust you to do what we wish. To behave beautifully…”
Thus Harriett is characterized by her obedience, a ‘good girl’, effectively trained to prioritize other people’s needs over her own from birth to death, and to present herself as she feels other people would wish to perceive her.
Her behaviour is always impeccable (though inwardly, as her life progresses, she is increasingly critical of the appearance and perceived failings of those around her). She plods through an awful lot of improving literature, to no particular end (though so, I realize, do I). She idolises her father, though he turns out to be a poor, even feckless, businessman; her announcement, on meeting new acquaintances, that “my father was Milton Frean” increasingly inspires bemusement (who he?) than respect. Her greatest moral quandary comes when she falls in love with the fiancé of her best friend, Priscilla, but feels compelled to deny her feelings, and thus her one opportunity for marriage. Sinclair’s prose, meanwhile is devastating in its simplicity: “The years passed. They went with an incredible rapidity, and Harriett was now fifty“. Tell me about it.
By kowtowing to her father, refusing ever to be selfish and putting her mother’s (assumed) needs above her own, effectively dedicating herself to self-sacrifice, Harriett ends up watching her life flow through her fingers. She deviates from this course only once, when, entitled and peevish as she ages, she dismisses her maid when she has a baby, only taking her back when the child has tragically died.
The Life and Death of Harriett Frean is essentially a highly readable criticism of 19th century assumptions about middle-class womanhood, and a treatise against people-pleasing and self-effacement and for agency and boundaries. This small book packs a mighty punch, and should be required reading for all 16-year-olds.







